Balancing Exotic Entertainment and Sugaring

I often find it funny how some things in my life seem to correlate. My school degree , personal life, professional job, side hustles, and even just people I know somehow seem to connect or relate in some form or fashion. Luckily, everything I am involved in relates and ultimately ends up balancing and functioning in an organized manner. One of these balancing correlations are my part time means of income: sugaring and dancing. If you’re on this site, I am sure you are familiar with the world of sugaring, but when I say dancing, I’m not talking about ballet. More commonly known as stripping the art of pole dancing has been around for a great deal of time. These two worlds that I was introduced to at the age of eighteen have been two worlds that didn’t require too much work to maintain, manage, and balance.These two worlds allowed me the ability to quit my “real job”, and helped put me through school.

At eighteen I was working at a small diner and was getting ready to ship off to school. During this time I was introduced to Atlanta’s strip club culture. Already familiar with sugaring due to working at the diner, and having older men consistently hit on me: I had already secured two sugar dads. Not wanting to add to the list, or entertain anyone else: I was hungry for more money and irritated with my server position at the diner. With one of my sugar dads I was able to club hop and get an idea of the strip club lifestyle. I was instantly lured. The money seemed to come fast, the girls were all pretty, friendly, and they all seemed to be having fun. I then began to do my research. I did my research, learned as much as I could, practiced dancing, got my permit, and got hired at a small popular local club.

Pretty soon I was doing pole tricks, a club favorite, and had quit my job, and was dancing full time. The two sugar daddies that I had were replaced with regulars that frequented me at the club. I figured it I can get the double the amount of money at the club for entertaining a couple dudes for a few hours just by dancing: there was not a need for my sugar daddies, but I was wrong.

Just like people have businesses that are busy a certain time of the year that’s how dancing became. Some days were guaranteed which were primarily weekends, but other days were hit or miss. Getting irritated with the inconsistency of my money earned I soon learned that the club was a meeting place for sugar daddies. Many of my regulars would solely come in to see me due to me not exchanging numbers with them. After frequenting the clubs often and developing a pretty good relationship with them we would go for dates, grow more, and soon they became a sugar dad. Some of my regulars were long term and others were short term. Even if I lost a sugar daddy or an arrangement the relationship was never tainted because they would still come and see me at the club as a customer.

Now, as a part time sugar baby and dancer I am still able to maintain these worlds. If I had to give any advice to a sugar baby looking to dance or even vice versa it would be to keep the end goal in mind, and save, save, save. Then invest it. And of course keep it sweet. Sugaring and Dancing are two fields of work that many girls profit and benefit off of, but keep it mind it doesn’t last forever, and a back up plan is needed for when you exit.